Afraid of Moving to LA?

Ever caught yourself feeling a tad…intimidated by the thought of moving to LA?

You’re not quaking in your boots, losing sleep or shedding tears over the idea of moving to LA, but you’re not quite in sync with the notion either.

Your savings haven’t hit your preferred mark yet. You’re holding out for the perfect timing.

In reality, several months, possibly years, have slipped by without any real steps taken. You’re starting to question whether this move to Los Angeles will ever become possible.

There are unlimited reasons you could come up with for not landing in LA yet. While the majority of them may be valid, you’re aware that there’s one overarching obstacle in your path.

Fear

You’re fearful of abandoning the familiarity of your home.

You’re fearful you might falter in such a big city.

You’re fearful about how your social circle will perceive you if you don’t succeed.

You’re fully aware that life is all about taking risks, and you also understand that LA won’t materialize unless you take action.

Yet, you still can’t bring yourself to do it. You’ve been thinking about this move for so long that you’re wondering if you’re even cut out for this LA thing.

That’s simply not the case.

You have what it takes to make it to LA.

Let me outline how…

1. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: Opinions

One of the primary barriers for many people thinking about a move to LA is concern over how others will view them if they don’t succeed.

Consider this: Everyone has insecurities similar to your own.

So, why burden yourself with the opinions of others who haven’t pursued their own dreams?

It’s like a bird seeking flight advice from a penguin.

It’s simply irrational.

Your perspective is the sole one that ultimately counts because you’re the only one who has to live with your decisions.

Center your thoughts on what needs to be accomplished. Recognize the fleeting nature of time and resolve to seize the moment; only then will LA become a reality. Else, you risk being swayed by the views of others into a life that doesn’t resonate with you.

2. Embrace Awesomeness

Am I awesome?

Absolutely!!!

And so are you.

Surviving in this city demands a significant degree of confidence and vitality. Be crystal clear about your expectations from LA and start working towards them now.

If you’re a writer, write incessantly.

If you’re an actor, hone your craft.

If you’re a musician, create music.

Whatever you aspire to be in LA, start working towards it right now. There’s nothing preventing you from taking courses (even online), practicing, or networking locally to gain insights on how to fine-tune your skills.

“I’ll get started once I move to LA”. Sound familiar?

Really, what makes you believe you’ll muster up the drive after you’ve moved?

I highly doubt it.

The challenges only escalate once you land here, believe me.

So, make the move now and embody awesomeness!

3. Devise a Plan

Construct a financial plan. Take up a second job if necessary.

Without a bit of adversity and elbow grease, progress is elusive.

Also, invest some time in learning about LA and business you’re interested in. Understand the key players as well as the lower-level ones (you’re likely to meet them first).

4. Gear up for Liftoff

Set a date.

Purchase a plane ticket.

Load up your car.

Spread the word.

Apply pressure on yourself to get to LA and hold yourself accountable.

If LA is truly your aim, you’ll uncover a path to reach it. No excuses.

The Hard Truth About LA

The anxiety never completely leaves.

You merely evolve and develop better coping mechanisms.

I was in the same boat when I relocated to LA. I had zero contacts.

Frankly, I was clueless about where I’d stay on my arrival day. I was a 23-year-old recent graduate, unemployed, with all my worldly belongings crammed into my car.

But, I didn’t allow that to deter me.

I firmly believe this characterizes those who actually succeed in LA. They experience fear just like everyone else, but they persevere regardless.

They’re ready to radically alter their life course, no matter the potential hurdles.

They’re willing to relocate to LA and bear the label of being “crazy” for doing so.

They’re willing to dedicate years of their life striving for success in LA.

These individuals are not superior to you or me. They’re simply aware of the price of success and are prepared to foot the bill.

Are you prepared to do the same?